One of the biggest traps for the unwary spiritual traveller is in the desire to assist others we step off our path onto theirs. We break a spiritual law when we delve too closely into someone’s life and re-organise, take control and make decisions for them. We need to be constantly aware that free will is the most powerful and fundamental power of a human being and we should honour that in everyone we meet on our path. Offer help and love don’t fix or save otherwise that person will have to re-tread the part of the path over which you carried them.
This can be exhausting for them and disheartening for you!